As Maryanne Williamson says, "We are powerful beyond measure".
So if we have the power to create chaos, don't we also have the power to create peace and calm? If we have the power to create poverty, don't we also have the power to create abundance? Is it also in our power to create health if we in deed have the power to create illness?
If this concept is upsetting to you, I suggest you try the following EFT tapping sequence.
ROUND ONESetup:Even though I believe life happens to me not through me, I deeply and profoundly accept who I am. Even though I believe my reality is out of my control, I deeply and completely accept this belief in this moment. Even though I believe my experience is beyond my control, I deeply and profoundly accept who I am in this moment.
Tapping SequenceThis belief that life is out of my control
This belief that I am not in control of my circumstance
This belief that I do not have the power to change my circumstance
This belief that I have no control over my life
This belief that I am powerless to change my life's circumstances
It's rediculous to belive that I have control over my life
I refuse to believe I have created this mess
It's not my fault!!!!
ROUND TWOSetup (change "anger" to fit your own emotion if appropriate)
Even though I'm angry that people think I'm responsible for my life, I love and accept myself and this anger. Even though I feel angry when people intimate that I've created this mess, I deeply and profoundly accept who I am. Even though I get really ticked off when people think I chose to live this way, I deeply and completely love and accept how I feel.
Tapping SequenceThe gall of these people
Who do they think they are?
I do not choose to live like this!
I did not consciously create this circumstances!!
I'm angry that they think I did this to myself!
I'm really angry!!
I don't want all this chaos (debt, stress, pain, worry...)
I did not choose all this!!
ROUND 3SetupEven though I don't believe I'm in control, I choose to be open to a new reality. Even though I don't believe I can do anything to change my circumstances, I choose to be open to the possibility of a new reality. Even though I didn't consciously create this current situation, I choose to be open to the possibility of a new reality.
Tapping Sequence (this is 4 rounds)
I don't believe I have the power to change my circumstance
It is not my fault
I want things to change but I don't know how
If I knew what to do to change things I would
It's scary to think I have the power to change
What would I have to give up?
There's something that's keeping me rooted in this situation
It's too hard to change
I'm afraid to look at what I need to do
I choose open to the possibility that I can do it
There's so many things working against me
I choose to be open that this can happen for me
I'm afraid if I change things someone will be mad at me
I choose to be open that change happens easily and effortlessly
I don't know what to do!
I choose to know the answers are readily available to me
I choose to be open to the possibility of a new reality
I choose to know this can happen for me
I choose to envision what I really want for myself
I choose to see a new reality as a possibility
I choose to recognize I am worth getting what I want from life
I choose for this new reality to come easily and effortlessly
I choose to focus on what I want and let the rest go
I choose to see this new reality coming forth
Where to go from HereAsk yourself what would be downside to giving up your current reality. Would someone important to you be upset if things changed for you? Would you be giving something up? Would it feel safe to have things change? What would you be missing if things changed? These are all tappable issues.
Ask yourself if you are worthy of having the life you want. If not, why not? Tap on all the reasons you do not feel worthy of having what you want.
Still stuck? Consider working with a Certified EFT Practitioner.